Love Without Boundaries is Just Trauma With a Smile

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 24/07/2025

The moment I gave myself permission to be an asshole… was the moment I finally became a leader. Now before your ego grabs the wheel. I’m not talking about throwing tantrums. I’m not talking about being reactive, loud, or emotionally...

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When I Realized I Was the Problem in My Dating Life

Shawn Hesmatpour

Published on: 27/05/2025

If any part of this hits, it’s probably because you’ve been there too. You’re doing the work, showing up as a good man, and still getting met with disrespect, mixed signals, or cold energy. I’ve been through it more times than I’d like to admit...

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